Sexual assault is a devastating crime that is committed with shocking frequency in our society. In Freeborn County last year alone, the Crime Victims Crisis Center worked with 25 individuals whose lives were impacted by sexual violence. The shocking fact is that this number does not begin to reflect the full extent of the problem. According to the American Medical Association, sexual assault remains the most dramatically under-reported crime, and an estimated two-thirds of assaults are never reported — often because victims fear they will be blamed for the assault.

As leaders and role models in our communities, we cannot afford to remain silent about sexual violence or blame victims for the decisions of perpetrators. This injustice only serves to create an atmosphere where sexual violence is implicitly condoned and perpetuated. We must use our voices to break the silence and build a culture where respectful relationships are expected, where sexual violence is not tolerated, where offenders are held accountable for their actions, and where victims and their families are given the support they need to heal.

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, a nationally recognized time to focus our efforts on sexual assault education, prevention and awareness. The Crime Victims Crisis Center joins advocates and survivors across the nation in observation of this time. During Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and throughout the year, we invite everyone to take a stand against sexual violence. There are simple ways each of us can take a stand against sexual violence on a daily basis. We set a powerful example every time we talk to our kids about the importance of respect and equality in relationships, every time we speak up if someone makes a degrading comment, every time we demonstrate support for survivors of sexual violence. By educating ourselves and talking with others, we can challenge our communities to reject sexual violence. Together we can end sexual violence.

Ilene Grosam

Albert Lea