Jose “Joe” Avelar Jr.

Published 12:48 pm Tuesday, October 6, 2020

Funeral services for Jose “Joe” Avelar Jr. were held at 11:00 AM on Friday, October 9, 2020 at St. Theodore Catholic Church, Albert Lea, with Father Kurt Farrell officiating. Burial with military honors were at St. Theodore Cemetery. funeral service was livestreamed to the public. Simply go to to view it.

Joe passed away at his home in Albert Lea on Monday, October 5, 2020 at the age of 72.

Jose Alfonso Avelar Jr. was born on December 6, 1947 in Crystal City, TX to parents Jose and Ventura (Riveria) Avelar. When he was young, his family moved to the Albert Lea area, where he attended school. At the age of 17, Joe enlisted in the United States Army, serving multiple tours of duty during the Vietnam War as a part of the 101st and 173rd Special Forces Divisions. Upon his honorable discharge, Joe signed up for the National Guard, serving our country for another 28 years.

Jose “Joe” Avelar Jr.

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In 1986, Joe married Brenda (Gulbertson) and spent 27 wonderful years together until her death in 2013. Joe missed Brenda greatly after her passing.

Joe worked various jobs throughout his life, including Birds Eye, Farmstead and Swift-Eckrich. He was a member of St. Theodore Catholic Church. Joe was extremely proud of his service to the Army. He was a member of the DAV, In-Country Vets, VFW and American Legion. He was also a member of the Eagles Club and many others. Joe enjoyed bowling, shooting pool, BS’ing with his coffee buddies, and playing cards with his family. He also ran the VFW Bingo game for over 20 years. His grandchildren were Joe’s world, and he cherished every moment spent with them. He can be described as funny, honest, supportive, and would help anyone in need.

He will be missed by his surviving family members: father, Jose Avelar Sr. and his wife, Isabel; children, Josephine Avelar, Jose “Chopper” Avelar, Adam (Carmen Rivera) Avelar, Samantha (Josh) Reyerson, Brenda Lee Avelar, and Tabitha (Shane Bolinger) Avelar; grandchildren, Tre, Ezra, Eli, KayLyn, Hunter, Joseph, Alexia, Antonio, Angelo, Brayden, Haylee, Camden, Terrance, Aidyn, Karson, and Dominic; siblings, Salvador (David) Avelar, Eddy (Becky) Avelar, David (Tina) Avelar, Mary (Gilbert) Johnson, Henry (Bonnie) Avelar, Rueben (Carla) Avelar, Alfred Avelar, Leticia (Kenny) Robinson, and Yolanda (Rueben) Cardona; brother and sisters in-law, Arnold Gulbertson, Alzada Gulbertson, Cherri (Steve) Nelson, Marlene Boerner, Manuela Avelar, and Raymond Quintanilla; as well as many other loving nieces, nephews extended relatives and friends.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Ventura Avelar; wife, Brenda Avelar; son, Little Joe Avelar; siblings, Rudy Avelar and Diane Quintanilla; mother and father in-law, Francis (Opal) Gulbertson; and brothers and sisters in-law, Ed Boerner Francis Gulbertson and Kent Flatness.

Blessed be his memory.