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Nose for News by Sarah Stultz

After this weekend, I’m starting to think it’s time for me to take a break from social media again.

I knew we’d be in for some ugly comments on the Tribune’s Facebook page after the weekend’s “No Kings” rally and the “No King But Jesus” event the day before, but add in the deaths of former Minnesota House Speaker Melissa Hortman and her husband, and the shootings of Rep. John Hoffman and his wife, and it has been worse than I imagined.

Even after the events unfolded and more information was released about what happened, the keyboard warriors have been out in full force. It’s sad to see posts of people jumping to conclusions, making everything political and being outright mean in some cases.

They’ve done it on the Tribune page and some have done it on their own individual pages want.

While some lead with civil discourse to explain their views and opinions, for others, there’s nothing but name-calling, rude language, finger-pointing and just plain disrespect.

When did we get to the point that this type of behavior is acceptable?

I’m all for hearing about all sides of an issue and of sharing opinions, but if people could just be a little kinder in how they are speaking, they would get a lot more accomplished.

It’s important to keep an eye on your tone — don’t sound too aggressive, or people will automatically put up walls when reading or responding to your comments.

The same is true with name-calling. When you’re so focused on calling people names, your message gets lost, and people automatically disregard your comments.

Always speak the truth, no matter whose side you’re on. If you don’t have evidence that what you’re saying is true, don’t say it. Don’t spread rumors, create a false narrative and contribute to misinformation. There’s already too much of that out there on the internet.

Stay calm and take a break from reading the comments for a moment before you respond. This will give you a minute to think through what you’re going to say rather than responding solely on emotion.

In today’s age, there’s already so much hate out there. Take a minute before you post on social media and make sure you’re making comments in a respectful manner.

Sarah Stultz is the managing editor of the Tribune. Her column appears every Wednesday.